I have to admit, right here and now, that I'm
addicted to personality typing! I've found a lot of info
on the subject on the web, but, oddly enough, there's not a
whole lot about a theory of personality that's been very
popular lately: birth order. While I don't think it's a a
completely accurate theory, it does have some valid points
and besides, it's interesting! So I've put a list of
different birth order types and their characteristics here on
my page. Enjoy!
FIRSTBORNS:
- perfectionists
- achievement-oriented
- reach for impossible goals
- value themselves by what they do
- often get depressed and give up
- devastated by failure
- remember mistakes and dwell on them
- can only live with being number one
- competitive; life is a contest
- hate criticism
- have to win to keep high self-esteem
- reliable
- conscientious; can be everybody's rescuer
- make lists
- well-organized
- critical
- intolerant and impatient (especially with those they live with)
- serious
- scholarly
- get too involved in too many things with little time for self
- pleases; needs to learn how to say "no"
- high expectations for themselves
- goal-oriented
- ask a lot of questions
- want lots of details
- cautious
- careful
- usually get the most discipline
- think clearly
- have excellent memories
- "forgiving" is not a strong suit
- often have trouble sharing thoughts and feelings
- learn the hard way
- stubborn
- high need for approval
- get along with authority figures
- very "uptight"
FAMOUS FIRSTBORNS:
- Charles Manson
- Juliet Hulme
- Cher
- Queen Elizabeth II
- Douglas Adams
- President Clinton
- Agnetha Faltskog
- Isaac Hanson
- Anissa Jones
- Richard Carpenter
- Natasha Gregson Wagner
- Gwyneth Paltrow
- Margaret Cho
- David Nelson
- Caroline Kennedy Schlossberg
- Christina Crawford
- Leif Garrett
- Carrie Fisher
- Princess Caroline of Monaco
- Ted Bundy
- Frederick Douglass
- Jeffrey Dahmer
- Lindsay Lohan
- Wynonna Judd
- Mark Mathabane
- Mary Bell
- Shania Twain
- Melissa Joan Hart
- Melissa Gilbert
- Alyssa Milano
- Cain
SECOND-BORN (OF TWO CHILDREN):
- often referred to as "try harder kids"
- exhibit extreme personality difference from the older one
- may rebel to find his/her own place
- demand less of their parents' attention than the older sibling
- friendly
- flexible
- rarely concerned with rules and regulations
- if older sibling is perceived as inept, may usurp his/her role
FAMOUS SECOND-BORNS:
- Kristy McNichol
- Patricia Krenwinkel
- Roger Clinton
- Fran Drescher
- Karen Carpenter
- Soleil Moon Frye
- Princess Margaret
- Claire Danes
- Ricky Nelson
- JFK, Jr.
- Desi Arnaz, Jr.
- Dawn Lyn
- Ashley Judd
- Elijah Blue Allman
- Sara Gilbert
MIDDLE CHILDREN:
- mediator
- negotiator
- avoids conflict
- peace-makers
- fewest pictures in family album
- contradictory nature
- sociable, yet loners
- friendly, yet quiet
- outgoing, yet shy
- impatient and easily frustrated, yet laid back
- competitive, yet easygoing
- rebel, yet is the family peacemaker
- aggressive, yet avoids conflict
- compromise
- independent
- most secretive of the children
- least likely to seek professional help
- extremely loyal to peer group
- have many friends in many places
- prone to embarrassment, but will never admit it
- life is always "unfair"
- balanced
- often manifests either strongest or weakest personality in family
- not used to much attention-attention and compliments embarrass
FAMOUS MIDDLE CHILDREN:
- Pauline Parker
- Sharon Stone
- Harriet Beecher Stowe
- Susan Atkins
- Taylor Hanson
- Donny Osmond
- Prince Charles
- Natalie Wood
- Johnnie Whitaker
- the Dionne Quintuplets
- Madonna
- Michael Jackson
- Grace Kelly
- Louie Anderson
- Norma Bell
- Marilu Henner
- Stella McCartney
- Tennessee Williams
YOUNGEST CHILDREN:
- love the limelight
- outgoing charmers
- affectionate
- charming
- uncomplicated
- at times absent-minded
- "a little different"
- precocious
- likely to be a clown or entertainer, but want to be taken seriously
- carefree
- vivacious
- perceptive
- "people persons"
- quick to blame others
- good salesperson
- engaging
- live with ambivalence
- can be messy
- struggle with self-centeredness
- independent
- least likely to be disciplined
- often feel that nothing that they do is important
- have a hard time getting things straight
- lovable manipulators
- like to be taken care of if kept "the baby"
- least organized of the birth orders
FAMOUS YOUNGEST CHILDREN:
- Princess Stephanie of Monaco
- Celine Dion
- Crown Prince Alexei of Russia
- Janet Jackson
- Charles Watson
- Candace Cameron
- Marie Osmond
- Rory Kennedy
ONLY CHILDREN:
- reliable
- conscientious
- super-conservative
- achievement-oriented
- may have difficulty sharing/compromising
- typically get along better with younger or older children
- stubborn and uncooperative if accustomed to getting his/her own way
- paradoxically, the majority of them grow up to be either
independent and self-sufficient or helpless and dependent
FAMOUS ONLY CHILDREN:
- Candice Bergen
- Christina Applegate
- Chelsea Clinton
- LeAnn Rimes
- John the Baptist
- Howard Stern
- John Lennon
- Lenny Kravitz
- Phil Lynott
- Jay Leno
- Chynna Phillips
- China Kantner